20 Questions to Ask Someone if You Think They're Suicidal

Suicide is a difficult and often uncomfortable topic to talk about. However, having an open and honest conversation with someone who you think may be experiencing suicidal thoughts can save their life.

If you are worried about someone, it's important to approach them with kindness, empathy, and understanding.

Here are 20 questions you can ask someone if you think they are suicidal:

  1. How are you feeling right now?

  2. Have you been feeling sad or hopeless lately?

  3. Have you been feeling like a burden to others?

  4. Have you been experiencing any physical symptoms like headaches or stomachaches?

  5. Have you been having trouble sleeping or sleeping too much?

  6. Have you been feeling disconnected from friends or family?

  7. Have you been using drugs or alcohol more than usual?

  8. Have you been having thoughts about hurting yourself?

  9. Have you ever attempted suicide before?

  10. Have you been thinking about suicide as an option?

  11. What's been going on in your life recently that's been difficult?

  12. Have you been experiencing any traumatic events or losses recently?

  13. Have you been feeling like there's no way out of your situation?

  14. Have you talked to anyone else about how you're feeling?

  15. Have you sought any professional help?

  16. Do you have a plan for suicide?

  17. Do you have access to any lethal means?

  18. Have you made any preparations for suicide, such as giving away possessions?

  19. What would help you feel better right now?

  20. Can I help you find support or connect you with resources for help?

It's important to note that these questions are not meant to be used as a diagnostic tool but rather as a way to start a conversation and show that you care. Additionally, it's important to remain calm and non-judgmental and to listen carefully to the person's responses.

Talking about suicide can be uncomfortable, but it's important to break the stigma surrounding mental health and start the conversation. According to the Mayo Clinic, suicide is preventable, and talking openly about it can help someone feel less alone and more likely to seek help. Furthermore, studies show that simply asking someone if they are considering suicide can reduce their risk of attempting it.

If you or someone you know is experiencing suicidal thoughts, seeking professional help is important. There are resources available, including national hotlines and mental health organizations, that can provide support and guidance. Remember, it's okay not to have all the answers, but being there for someone who is struggling can make a huge difference.

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